All cells are encapsulated by a lipid membrane which facilitates the interaction between life and its environment. How life exploits the diverse mixtures of lipids that dictate membrane property and function has been experimentally challenging to address. We introduce an approach to tune and minimize lipidomes in Mycoplasma mycoides and the Minimal Cell (JCVI-Syn3A) revealing that a 2-component lipidome can support life. Systematically reintroducing phospholipid features demonstrated that acyl chain diversity is more critical for growth than head group diversity. By tuning lipid chirality, we explored the lipid divide between Archaea and the rest of life, showing that ancestral lipidomes could have been heterochiral. Our approach offers a tunable minimal membrane system to explore the fundamental lipidomic requirements for life, thereby extending the concept of minimal life from the genome to the lipidome.